Berbeda

Entah mengapa, mungkin karena baca-baca buku untuk #skripsih tercinta, makanya saya jadi banyak mikir susah-susah. Eh tapi dari dulu juga doyan mikir susah ye. Udah susah, nulisnya ga gitu jelas dan kompeherensif lagi, bikin bingung yang bacanya. Hahahaha...

Jadi gini, saya punya pertanyaan : kenapa sih orang itu sibuk sekali untuk jadi berbeda?

Perhatikan deh sekeliling kita, banyak sekali orang yang sibuk untuk jadi berbeda. Berbeda mulai dari cara berpakaian, cara makan, cara tidur, jam tidur, pemikiran, kata-kata, cara ngetweet, cara ngeblog dan dengan cara-cara lain. Contoh, pakai topi terus sepanjang hari, ga peduli topinya udah apek minta dibakar. Padahal ya, semua orang itu PASTI BERBEDA. Tidak perlu susah-susah ribut jadi berbeda. Apalagi yang sampai musuhin orang supaya keliatan dimana bedanya. Ga penting banget. Semua orang PASTI UNIK dengan cara mereka masing-masing. Kenapa mesti ribut dan berusaha keras jadi unik dan berbeda?

Ya orang juga sangat boleh kok berbeda pendapat denganku soal hal ini. Salah satu yang aku heran juga, kenapa mesti koar-koar kalau kamu berbeda dan unik? Dimana itu ada sebuah keniscayaan, tidak perlu dikoarkan. Mari merayakan perbedaan dan keunikan setiap orang. Tidak perlu berebutan menyebut diri berbeda. Tidak perlu berebutan membuat klik supaya terlihat 94uL dengan orang yang unik. Menjadi berbedalah dan menjadi uniklah secara natural.

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[Song] The Heart Of The Matter

India Arie - OST Sex & The City
[originally performed by Don Henley]

I got the call today, I didn't wanna hear
But I knew that it would come
An old true friend of ours was talkin' on the phone
She said you found someone
And I thought of all the bad luck,
And all the struggles we went through
How I lost me and you lost you
What are these voices outside love's open door
Make us throw off our contentment
And beg for something more?

I've been learning to live without you now
But I miss you sometimes
The more I know, the less I understand
All the things I thought I knew, I'm learning them again
I've been tryin' to get down to the Heart of the Matter
But my will gets weak
And my thoughts seem to scatter
But I think it's about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore

These times are so uncertain
There's a yearning undefined
And people filled with rage
We all need a little tenderness
How can love survive in such a graceless age
And the trust and self-assurance that lead to happiness
They're the very things we kill, I guess
Pride and competition cannot fill these empty arms
And the work they put between us,
You know it doesn't keep us warm

I've been trying to live without you now
But I miss you, baby
The more I know, the less I understand
And all the things I thought I figured out, I have to learn again
I've been tryin' to get down to the Heart of the Matter
But my will gets weak
And my heart is so shattered
But I think it's about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore

All the people in your life who've come and gone
They let you down, you know they hurt your pride
Better put it all behind you; cause life goes on
You keep carrin' that anger, it'll eat you up inside

I wanna be happily everafter
And my heart is so shattered
But I know it's about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore

I've been tryin' to get down to the Heart of the Matter
Because the flesh will get weak
And the ashes will scatter
So I'm thinkin' about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if you don't love me anymore
Even if you don't love me anymore

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Mellow malam-malam. Maaf ya, saya jadi mellow sekali baca lirik ini. Ditambah kemudian jadi posting-posting engga jelas, hohohoho...

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[Song] Take Me Away

John Legend - Evolver

Oh, la la la la la
Yeah, yeah

We dance and sing
Somewhere in between heaven and hell
Gabrielle, that was her name
Everyone was smiling
Even through their tears, under a spell
But in Gabby’s eyes, nothing
I ask, do you not like the music
She says it’s alright
But she dances to her own sad tune
She says…

Take me away from here
Take me somewhere where love is like breathing
I don’t care where we go
Long as I’m there with you, baby
Long as I’m there with you

I could tell she’s been through pain I could only dream
Nightmares that live where you live
Tears well in her eyes, but she wouldn’t let them fall
I’d give the world to know where her smile is
I ask will you dance with me now
Let me try to figure out
The fastest rout out of town
And she said…

Take me away from here
Take me somewhere where love is like breathing
I don’t care where we go
Long as I’m there with you, baby

Oh, I got a full tank of gas, girl
Anywhere, you wanna go, girl
All you have to do is ask, girl
Oh, she said…

Take me away from here
Take me somewhere where love is like breathing
I don’t care where we go
Long as I’m there with you, baby

Take me away from here
Take me somewhere where love is like breathing
I don’t care where we go
Long as I’m there with you

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Please. Take me away. Let's have our own world. Where everybody else is renting.

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I'm Sorry

For falling in love with you

For unable to hold my feeling towards you

 

I'm sorry for hurting you

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Happy Valentine's Day from Si RantingPohon

Love the motion pictures. Gambar bergerak yang lucu dan membutuhkan waktu untuk membuatnya.

Btw, Si RantingPohon ini aku kenal sebagai drummer yang sering aku nista dan hina. Maaf ya dik RantingPohon. Kamu lucu sih :)

Keep it up! (hasil kerjaannya bukan obyek nista hinanya :P) Btw, fedoranya buat aku aja yaaa :)

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Mr. & Mrs. Rolly Ponto :)

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Menyakiti Rasa Aman WNI #tolakRPMkonten

Kemarin @ndorokakung dan @aulia ngetweet Rancangan Peraturan Menteri Kominfo tentang Kontent Multimedia. Dipublikasikan 11 Februari 2010, melalui Siaran Pers No. 22/PIH/KOMINFO/2/2010 :) Waktu itu saya tidak peduli dan melewatinya. Tapi ternyata itu langkah yang salah :( Harus lebih sering membaca hal-hal macam itu supaya tidak dibodohin orang lain (baca: pemerintah).

Setelah beberapa orang membacanya, mulai timbul tanda tanya di sana dan di situ. Rupanya konten dari Rancangan Peraturan Menteri atau RPM ini akan membatasi gerak kita dalam menggunakan internet. Serasa hidup di negeri yang tidak kenal demokrasi. Mungkin mau tiru-tiru negara lain. Sayangnya niru negara yang salah.

Katanya sih RPM untuk melindungi kita. Padahal menurut saya, ini malah menyakiti rasa aman kita. Selama ini kita merasa aman untuk berkegiatan di internet, tidak pernah merasa takut dibredel. Sekarang malah kita akan diawas-awasi, diatur-atur seperti anak kecil bodoh yang tidak bisa menjaga diri.

Tentu rencana ini harus disusun dengan baik. Kasus Gadis ABG yang berpacaran sampai kebablasanlah yang jadi umpannya. Lewat berita-berita di media massa tradisional yang memojokkan Facebook. Masyarakat luas berusaha diyakinkan bahwa internet itu berbahaya dan sumber kejahatan. Tsk! Betapa dangkalnya.

Coba search aja di twitter #tolakRPMkonten dan kamu akan menemukan beragam komentar dan pendapat.

Salah satu yang menarik adalah tweet dari @valensriyadi :
RPM konten bertentangan dgn UU No 36/1999 ttg Telekomunikasi ps 40: dilarang melakukan penyadapan jaringan telekomunikasi

Menarik juga untuk mengikuti tweet dari @ndorokakung dan @thomasarie.

Komunitas dari forum Kaskus.us juga angkat suara. Bahkan kalau dari timeline saya, komunitas ini yang pertama secara korporat menolak. Boleh dilihat di http://kask.us/3365933

Bahkan ada juga yang dari sisi humor satir (menurut saya) mengangkat masalah ini, @nyonyo26 yang ingin mengangkat @b464s (momod Twitter :p) menggulingkan Menkoinfo. Tetep ya #baghas forevah!

Kita bisa dukung gerakan ini lewat Facebook page yang disebarkan oleh @enda SOS-Internet-Indonesia

Atau memasang logo (gambar bawah) dan billboard (gambar atas) yang dibikin @pamantyo


Saya kok jadi penasaran, ini yang dilindungi memang masyarakat atau orang-orang tertentu saja? Supaya orang Indonesia makin gullible (nambah gitu gullible-nya) gitu? Supaya orang Indonesia susah mengkritisi kerja pemerintah? Supaya orang Indonesia jangan membela orang yang benar dan tidak bersalah? Supaya ga ketahuan apa kesalahan-kesalahan dan kebodohan yang dilakukan pemerintah? Menyedihkan sekali ya... Mengapa harus merampas rasa aman warga negara Indonesia? Dimananya UUD '45 atau Pancasila sih keharusan negara merampas rasa aman WNI-nya?


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Berbagi Cerita Tentang Glee di The Jakarta Globe

Marcel Thee

The cast of "Glee" celebrates a recent win at the Golden Globes. (Reuters Photo)

The cast of "Glee" celebrates a recent win at the Golden Globes. (Reuters Photo)

'Glee'-fully Gleeky Fandom Spreads to Indonesia

 

Like “Beverly Hills 90210” or “Friends” before it, the new TV series “Glee” has a universal appeal that crosses all boundaries. Maybe it is the mix of humor, drama and just the right types of characters that has made these serials such rousing successes globally. Whatever it is, the spotlight is currently shining on “Glee,” and the hype surrounding it is certainly not limited to the US.

“Gleeks,” as the show’s fans are often called, exist worldwide, from Europe to Indonesia. There is even an Indonesian Glee community (gleeksindonesia.blogspot.com), which is growing at a rapid rate, even though the first season only began airing in the US late last year.

Tsana, 17, runs the community with some of her friends. She was taken with the show, which follows a high school choir in the US, after viewing it on a pirated DVD. She says that she created the Web site because she felt that series was “unique and fresh, especially in its characters.”

“Their mix of drama, comedy and musical is why I like the show,” says Alderina Gracia, 24, another fan, who created the Indonesian Gleeks Facebook fanpage.

“With music you can express things that words or simply acting are just not able to convey,” she says.

“Glee” is famous for its musical numbers, where the ensemble cast performs hit songs both from the past and present. Everything from classic artists such as The Supremes and Neil Diamond to modern artists like R&B singers Kanye West and Rihanna gets a musical makeover.

Patrick, 25, another keen fan says, “The success of ‘Glee’ is due to the brilliant idea of the producers to use a lot of popular teen songs, instead of relying solely on show tunes. This attracts teenagers because they get to watch these fresh characters while listening to a familiar soundtrack.”

The main cast features the regular high school outcasts which include a paraplegic and a homosexual, as well as the compulsory popular snobby ones — a blond cheerleader and a mohawked rebel. In this case “Glee” is as predictable as TV series characters can get, but they manage, somehow, to maintain high appeal.

“The characters are really strong,” says Vania Winona, a 25-year-old Glee fanatic. “The tough ones are super tough, the mellow ones are incredibly mellow, and the geeky ones are as geeky as can be.”

And the “geeky” main characters are clearly a strong selling point of the show.

Desy Khoirunnisa Rahman, 27, an avid “Glee” viewer says, “Them being the uncool loser-types makes me love the cast more. I always root for the underdog.”

According to Patrick, the show’s themes are also “dark” in comparison to other teen TV shows.

“They discuss issues such as teen pregnancy, back-stabbing, homosexuality among teens, and other matters which you would rarely see in a TV series or musical,” Patrick says.

Not that the show doesn’t have its detractors. Astari Dewi, 24, says that she finds the story line “boring and predictable” as it relies on formulaic story lines instead of offering anything fresh.

“I really just find the musical part interesting, but I just can’t get through the dramatic parts of the series to listen to them,” she says.

Rindi Agusandiani, 24, concurs and says that the first time she watched the show it bored her “in the first five minutes.”

Being only in its first season, the show’s lasting appeal is yet to be tested. And like many other TV shows, it will depend on how much the characters continue to engage the increasingly demanding young audience members.

From the looks of it, however, people are already falling for specific characters.

Desy says, “My fave character is Kurt because he’s bitchy and always in style.”

Patrick picks Rachel as his favorite, due to her being “obnoxious, bossy, but incredibly talented.”

Tsana hopes that her Web site will introduce “Glee” to more people, and eventually increase the number of Gleeks in Indonesia.

She says, “It feels amazing when you are able to have your own community who are all focused on loving one thing.”

Desy summarizes the show’s appeal: “Everybody loves it when the underdog wins, especially when the jocks and the cheerleaders eventually join them. Plus, everybody loves good music.”

The Music

By now, the lead single from the series, “Don’t Stop Believin’ ” has already ingrained itself into the subconscious of every teen in the modern world.

What used to be the signature song of 1970s rock band Journey has now been transformed into an anthem for disenfranchised adolescents everywhere. And it isn’t hard to see why. Harmonizing its rocking nature with its identifiably uplifting lyrics, the song’s immediacy is twofold — it relates to both the rebellious and melodramatic streak of most teens.

“Don’t Stop Believin’ ” is indisputably the best song that has come out of the “Glee” universe. And on the album “Glee: The Music Vol.1 & Vol. 2,” you’d be hard-pressed to find another song equally fitting with the series’ theme.

Not that the rest the cast’s repertoire lacks any punches. The 17 songs that make up the first volume of the album are as likable as “Don’t Stop Believin’,” but the songs’ production gets increasingly sugar-sweet as the album progresses.

Your enjoyment of the album rests solely on your age group and artistic preferences.

Certainly, this cutesy nature is in line with the album’s target audience who are used to the easy-listening tunes of Disney artists like the Jonas Brothers or Miley Cyrus. But a little more roughness around the edges would have been welcome.

If you are going to introduce the kids to older artists such as Journey, REO Speedwagon, The Supremes, Neil Diamond, Paul Anka and the Rolling Stones, why not go all the way and bring along the livelier recording techniques of artists from those era? Granted, some of those “classic” musicians were teen idols themselves in their time, but surely none used such amount of studio tinkering as the songs on the “Glee” soundtrack.

A cover of REO Speedwagon’s “Can’t Fight This Feeling” — sung by Cory Monteith who plays the hunky Finn Hudson on the series — is a pleasant power ballad that thrives on its archetypal 1980s melody. Monteith’s voice is pleasant but not strong enough to carry the song, ironically lacking the theatrically sentimental power of the original vocals.

Elsewhere, The Supremes’ “You Keep me Hanging On” retains the original’s soulful character, but Dianna Agron, who plays the high-school’s queen bee is no Diana Ross, barely keeping up with the song’s upbeat rhythm.

In Volume 1, the covers of the more modern songs work better, mostly due to the similar excess of electronic tinkering that appears in modern recordings.

For example, a cover of Avril Lavigne’s “Keep Holding On” sung by the whole cast sounds better in its grandiosity, especially due to the comparatively weak vocals of its original singer.

Similarly, Rihanna’s “Take a Bow” is on equal footing with the original, lacking only Rihanna’s attitude-heavy nasal vocals.

The most enjoyable covers in Volume 1 are the gimmicky songs such as Kanye West’s “Gold Digger” and Young MC’s silly-but-fun “Bust a Move.” Here, the joyfulness of the high school musical comes across strongest.

While Volume 1 is hit or miss in terms of vocals and song choice, Volume 2 offers better vocals overall (in all of their auto-tune glory) but the song selection seems to be an even more random pick of hits across the decades.

Opening with a John Fogerty’s classic, “Proud Mary,” shows that no one can really carry the song like Fogerty did. It is nostalgically catchy, but it also seems pointless.

The inclusion of the following two tracks, Lionel Richie’s and Diana Ross’s “Endless Love” and The Pretenders’ “I’ll Stand by You” is equally questionable. Richie and Ross own the former, along with its complex and glorious harmonies. Any other duet suffers by comparison.

“I’ll Stand by You” has been covered so many times that by now it should be astoundingly clear just how much Chrissie Hynde’s vocals add to the song’s bittersweet strength.

The better covers are, again, the less serious ones. These include Lily Allen’s “Smile,” Jennifer Paige’s “Crush” and, perhaps Volume 2’s best offering, Van Halen’s over-the-top “Jump.”

Unfortunately, Volume 2 contains more duds than the already uneven first edition. The three opening covers are painful, especially if you’re familiar with the originals, as is the completely out-of-place version of John Lennon’s “Imagine.”

Both albums are clearly geared to fans of the show or at least listeners of similar music. For such a crowd this album certainly delivers: the songs are immediate and the arrangements are as predictable as can be.

However, since many of the songs fall into the classic rock category it’s impossible not to make the distinction between how the original sounded and how the “Glee” cast sings it.

More often than not this makes the record sound like Karaoke mix tape — well-sung and professionally-produced Karaoke, but Karaoke nonetheless.

Diwawancarai via email sama Marcel dari The Jakarta Globe dan masuk ke artikel 'Glee'-fully Gleeky Fandom Spreads to Indonesia. Call me ndeso. Yeah, I am. Diwawancara sekali aja, udah heboh kaya diFeature satu majalah. Hahahaha...

Sekalian promosi, di Facebook aku bikin Group Indonesian GLEE Lovers, boleh loh bergabung  :D

Don't STOP believing!

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Masak, Ikut Kuis dan Banjir

Hari ini betapa lengkapnya!

Pertama-tama, masak Nasi Goreng Kimchi dan Tumis Daging Sei. Berhubung bingung punya kimchi lumayan banyak, berserulah diriku di Twitter dan mendapat respon dari @ditut, @savitri@waxinglyrical dan @indrapr. Cenderung seragam bilang Nasi Goreng Kimchi atau dimasukkan ke Mie. Berhubung kemarin sudah makan mie kuah dan kimchi, kini giliran Nasi Goreng Kimchi. Tadinya nasgor ini dicampur daging sei tapi sewaktu saya sedang menumis bawang putih dan bawang merah kemudian menambahkan daging sei, sepertinya wajan sudah penuh jadi lebih baik seinya ditumis saja. Sesuai anjuran dan saran Mbak Savitri, maka aku posting hasil masak hari ini. Ada foto yang lebih cantik sih tapi ribet pindahin dari kamera.

Nasi Goreng Kimchi

Perlu : 3 siung bawang putih, satu piring kecil kimchi diiris-iris, garam, merica dan kecap manis sekitar 1 sendok makan. jangan lupa nasi putih tentunya.

Diapain? Bawang putihnya ditumis harum, masukkan kimchi dan oseng sebentar. Kimchi sudah berbumbu dan sedap jadi tidak perlu bumbu lain-lain sebenarnya. Lalu masukkan nasi putih dan bubuhi kecap manis, garam dan merica. Diublek dan dirasai. Kalau terlalu manis, lain kali kecapnya lebih sedikit :P Pemberi tips yang kurang bertanggung jawab ya? *dipentung*

 

 

Kemudian dengar kalau di Koprol ada kuis yang disponsori Norton Symantec! MAGABUT isi kuisoner dan foto sebagai bukti telah mengisi kuisioner. Makanya muka mirip dengan asisten rumah tangga. Bahkan asisten rumah tanggaku yang datang seminggu sekali itu, lebih cakep dari pada aku sekarang (--")~

 

Saat mengisi survey, hujan mulai turun dan Sharon cuek. Hujan turun dengan deras, Sharon cepat-cepat memindahkan jemuran. Hujan hampir berhenti, Sharon haus dan mengambil minuman dari ruang makan. JRENG JRENG JRENG! Inilah yang terjadi saudara-saudara, BANJIR! (__")

 

Apa daya, harus segera dibuang airnya. Dengan kekuatan serok, akan kuhabisi kau AIR! Tadinya pakai kain pel saja menghabisi airnya tapi dipikir-pikir pakai serok lebih cepat dan oye!

 

Tidak lupa dipakai sarung tangannya supaya jemari tidak jelek sekali. Meskipun ya tetep aja kotor jemarinya tapi lumayanlah, mengurangi kejorokan jemari.

 

Demikianlah hari ini. Begitu ramai hariku. Semoga dapat  4GB USB dari Norton Inner Circle.

 

 

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Kartun Golongan Darah

Siapa sih yang belum baca kartun atau komik golongan darah ini? Sudah banyak beredar di forum-forum, milis-milis dan email. Apalagi di blog-blog. Banyak banget! Tapi tahukan kamu siapa pencipta kartun ini? Penciptanya adalah orang Korea, RealCrazyMan. Sekalian mau bilang, "Thank you for your hardwork!" Diterjemahkan juga dalam bahasa Inggris.Bisa dilihat di sana versi yang lebih lengkap. Btw yang menterjemahkan ini ke bahasa Indonesia bukan saya. Saya juga ndak tahu, ribet ngetracknya.

                   

Paling kena ke aku tuh bagian nyetir. Aku golongan darah O dan memang kaya gitu kalau nyetir, semua orang lain dianggap bodoh dan tidak
memiliki kemampuan menyetir yang benar dan baik dan CEPAT. Sementara si pacar bergolongan daran B. Sangat distracted kalau nyetir dan aku bagian marah-marah karena dia ga lambat atau mulai distracted.

Kedua, yang bagian temen kabur tiba-tiba. Aku sih ga mungkin kabur gitu tapi kalau ada orang kabur tiba-tiba, aku pasti pengen tahu kenapa dan segera menyusul. Sementara si pacar yang bergolongan darah B, biasanya memang cuek gitu. Lucu banget nih komik.

Sedengarnya, yang buat komik ini memang melakukan research golongan darah dan kemudian membuatnya menjadi kartun. Keren banget sih nih
orang.

Hayo, kalau kamu yang mana?

 

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